Hire a Household Manager or Family Assistant

Household Managers & Family Assistants

Structure Behind the  Home

Whether you are running a company, managing a busy household, traveling often, or simply trying to keep up with the day to day, hiring a Household Manager or Family Assistant can bring the support you need.

A Household Manager or Family Assistant provides structure, consistency, and reliable household support, helping your home run smoothly and your time feel more manageable.

At Pink Nannies, we specialize in placing Household Managers and Family Assistants who align with your standards, communication style, and pace. The result is a home that feels more organized, and more time for what matters most.

Our candidates are selective by Nature

And we are equally selective in representing them.
Only a small percentage of applicants advance through our process.
The professionals who do share similar traits:

Composed

They regulate the environment. Even during high-intensity days, they operate with clarity and sound judgment.

Proactive

They see the problem before it becomes yours. Calendars are managed. Vendors are handled. Logistics are solved. And, your home starts feeling like your favorite 5+ star resort.

Discerning

They understand discretion, privacy, and the nuance of working in a private home. They read the room, know what matters, and move with quiet awareness.

Professional

This is not transitional work. It is a chosen profession. Many candidates bring backgrounds in executive support, education, estate management, or high-profile households.

This Is a Structural Hire

This role influences every operational layer of your home.
It requires someone who understands not just tasks, but how your household actually functions.
1.

We Search

A dedicated placement manager leads your search.

- We design a detailed role description based on operational needs, family culture, and long-term household vision. We recruit within our vetted network and screen new applicants specifically aligned with your role.

- We conduct layered interviews, reference verification, and alignment screening before any introduction. You are not reviewing stacks of resumes. You are meeting carefully curated professionals.

2.

You Select

We introduce a refined shortlist of highly aligned candidates.

- You receive detailed candidate profiles and personal insight. We guide interview strategy so you can evaluate judgment, initiative, and professional boundaries.

- A paid working trial allows you to experience real-time household flow before making a final decision.

The goal is longevity, not speed.

3.

We Support

We remain by your side through:

- Compensation structure guidance
- Employment agreements
- Scope of role clarification
- State specific payroll and compliance best practices
- Onboarding structure and performance expectations

We build placements that last.

What Does a Household Manager or Family Assistant Handle?

Every role is tailored, but commonly includes:

  • Full calendar management and scheduling
  • Vendor oversight and home maintenance coordination
  • Travel planning and packing logistics
  • School communication and activity coordination
  • Household systems and organization
  • Light family assistant tasks related to children
  • Event preparation and home flow management
  • Staff oversight in fully staffed homes

They create operational calm so you can be fully present where it matters most.

Find someone to run your house like your favorite 5+ star resort!

A strong Household Manager or Family Assistant preserves your energy, protects your children's environment, and reduces daily decision fatigue.
It's the difference between managing your home and living in it.

Your investment in your child’s future.

Rates vary greatly depending on the candidate’s experience, duties, preferred schedule, and the level of travel and flexibility required in the role.

Pink Nannies does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, national or ethnic origin, ancestry, age, religion or religious creed, disability or handicap, sex or gender, gender identity and/or expression, sexual orientation, military or veteran status, genetic information, or any other characteristic protected under applicable federal, state or local law. We encourage our families to follow EEO practices when interviewing and selecting candidates for their positions.

  • Launch Fee: $500 initiates the search.
  • Placement Fee: A one-time placement fee of 30% of the candidate's gross annual compensation applies upon successful placement.
  • Compensation: Professionals expect competitive salaried compensation, paid time off, healthcare stipend, and professional benefits aligned with role scope.

Don't Take It From Us.

4.9 rating across 300+ families

We weren’t looking for someone to “help out.” We needed someone who could operate at a high level without constant input. Pink Nannies understood that immediately and introduced us to someone who fit in a way that actually worked.

Executive Family, NYC

We have a demanding schedule and a home that doesn’t really slow down. Most candidates we met before this felt like they needed direction. This was different. She came in, understood the pace, and just handled it. That’s rare.

The Klein Family, San Francisco, CA

We don’t run on a typical 9 to 5 schedule, and that’s always been hard to find the right fit for. This time it worked. She understood the rhythm of our home right away and didn’t need constant direction. That made all the difference.

Michel Reed, Miami

We’ve had help before, but this felt completely different. There was a level of professionalism and ease that made our home feel more settled almost overnight. Pink Nannies really understood what we were looking for.

The Benitez Family, Miami

I needed someone who could keep up with our schedule and also bring calm into our home. That’s exactly what we got. It finally feels like things are running the way they should.

Danielle, Miami

We live a very full life between work, travel, and everything else Miami brings with it. Pink Nannies sent us someone who stepped in and just kept everything moving. The difference in our day to day was immediate.

The Alvarez Family, Miami

A truly exceptional nanny placement experience for families who expect more than a transaction. The process was thoughtful, discreet, and deeply personalized, with careful attention to values, household dynamics, and long term compatibility. Communication was always clear, professional, and reassuring at every step, resulting in a placement that felt seamless, aligned, and built to last. This is the level of care discerning families trust when quality and peace of mind matter most.

Isabelle , DC Family

Pink Nannies is amazing! As a nanny I am so thankful to have worked with such a professional, caring group of experts! The team is great at advocating on your behalf, guiding you through the process and teaching you great resume skills! Their support and guidance has been influential in my professional growth. I felt heard and comfortable during the process. They are very responsive and truly care about both parties. I couldn’t be happier working for the family I found through this agency. I look forward to working with Pink Nannies again in the future and can’t recommend this agency enough.

Hannah F., DC Nanny

Pink Nannies actually listened to us. We weren’t just looking for experience, we were looking for a certain temperament around our baby, and they picked up on details we didn’t even know how to explain. The person they introduced felt right almost immediately, and for the first time we stopped second guessing the decision.

Cronin Family, Virginia

Our schedules change constantly and we were used to managing the nanny as much as the children. That stopped after this placement. She operates independently and anticipates what we need before we say it.

Executive Family, DC

Pink Nannies matched our family with our beloved nanny, who is about to celebrate her third anniversary with us. We couldn’t be more grateful to them for making the perfect match! Our nanny is the kindest, most reliable, most competent person we could have ever dreamed of. Thank you Pink Nannies!

Private Family, Ohio

I was tasked with finding a nanny for a HP household with very specific needs. Pink Nannies understood our tone and expectations immediately and sent only polished, intuitive candidates. The match was thoughtful and exact. The placement brought much needed harmony to the home.

Lauren, Family Assistant, DMV

Our previous searches always felt like interviews. This felt like a recommendation from someone who knew our family well. Months later, the placement still feels steady, and that has changed our daily life more than we expected.

The Carter Family, Miami

We didn’t realize how much mental energy we were spending managing childcare until we didn’t have to anymore. Pink Nannies introduced someone who handled the day calmly and competently, and our home felt lighter almost overnight.

Private Family, Bay Area

We’ve hired before and it always felt like we were managing the person instead of being supported by them. Pink Nannies was completely different. They actually understood what we needed and sent someone who just got it. It made everything easier.

Family Office, Miami

We were stretched thin and honestly not showing up as the kind of parents we wanted to be. Pink Nannies changed that. They sent us someone who stepped in, took real ownership, and made our home feel steady again. I wish we had done it months earlier.

Greenberg Family, Washington DC

I didn’t expect to feel this much relief. It wasn’t just having help, it was finally feeling like someone understood how our home actually runs.

The Myers Family, DC

As two working parents with full schedules, we needed guidance we could rely on. Pink Nannies was discreet, clear, and steady throughout the process, and it felt more like a partnership than a transaction.

The Steele Family, Ohio

We were looking for something more intentional than a typical placement service. Pink Nannies approached the search thoughtfully and tailored it around our family, not a checklist. The process felt personal from the first conversation through the hire.

Private Equity Family, DC

We had a long list of must-haves, but Pink Nannies dug deeper—into values, parenting style, even our communication patterns. That’s why our nanny feels like she’s been with us forever.

Sarah, mom in Washington, D.C.

As a family assistant, I was responsible for finding the right nanny for a high-profile household with very specific expectations. Pink Nannies understood the tone of the home immediately. The team was organized, responsive, and incredibly perceptive. The candidates they presented were polished, thoughtful, and genuinely aligned with the household. The placement brought calm back to the day.

Lauren, Family Assistant in New York

With a demanding schedule and three young children, I needed someone who could anticipate, move quickly, and integrate naturally into our home. Pink Nannies approached the search with real professionalism. Our family assistant is sharp, proactive, and absolutely essential to how our household runs.

Daniel, CEO and father of three in DC

From the first call, Pink Nannies listened carefully and asked thoughtful questions about how our family actually lives. They introduced us to someone who fits us beautifully. We did not just find childcare. We found peace of mind.

Amanda, mom of two in Boston

Our household moves quickly. I have a demanding role and my husband travels constantly. Pink Nannies took the time to understand how our home operates and introduced us to a professional who brings steadiness to the entire day.

Priya, mom of three in Los Angeles

After working with two other agencies, we were honestly discouraged. Pink Nannies restored our confidence. Our nanny is kind, proactive, and deeply in tune with our children. The difference in our home has been remarkable.

Justin, dad of twins in New York

Our family is not easy to match. Blended household, complicated schedules, very high expectations. Pink Nannies handled the process with honesty and clarity. The candidates they presented were genuinely aligned with our home. We hired within three weeks.

Rachel, mom of five in Ohio

We weren’t looking for someone to “help out.” We needed someone who could operate at a high level without constant input. Pink Nannies understood that immediately and introduced us to someone who fit in a way that actually worked.

Executive Family, NYC

We have a demanding schedule and a home that doesn’t really slow down. Most candidates we met before this felt like they needed direction. This was different. She came in, understood the pace, and just handled it. That’s rare.

The Klein Family, San Francisco, CA

We don’t run on a typical 9 to 5 schedule, and that’s always been hard to find the right fit for. This time it worked. She understood the rhythm of our home right away and didn’t need constant direction. That made all the difference.

Michel Reed, Miami

We’ve had help before, but this felt completely different. There was a level of professionalism and ease that made our home feel more settled almost overnight. Pink Nannies really understood what we were looking for.

The Benitez Family, Miami

I needed someone who could keep up with our schedule and also bring calm into our home. That’s exactly what we got. It finally feels like things are running the way they should.

Danielle, Miami

We live a very full life between work, travel, and everything else Miami brings with it. Pink Nannies sent us someone who stepped in and just kept everything moving. The difference in our day to day was immediate.

The Alvarez Family, Miami

A truly exceptional nanny placement experience for families who expect more than a transaction. The process was thoughtful, discreet, and deeply personalized, with careful attention to values, household dynamics, and long term compatibility. Communication was always clear, professional, and reassuring at every step, resulting in a placement that felt seamless, aligned, and built to last. This is the level of care discerning families trust when quality and peace of mind matter most.

Isabelle , DC Family

Pink Nannies is amazing! As a nanny I am so thankful to have worked with such a professional, caring group of experts! The team is great at advocating on your behalf, guiding you through the process and teaching you great resume skills! Their support and guidance has been influential in my professional growth. I felt heard and comfortable during the process. They are very responsive and truly care about both parties. I couldn’t be happier working for the family I found through this agency. I look forward to working with Pink Nannies again in the future and can’t recommend this agency enough.

Hannah F., DC Nanny

Pink Nannies actually listened to us. We weren’t just looking for experience, we were looking for a certain temperament around our baby, and they picked up on details we didn’t even know how to explain. The person they introduced felt right almost immediately, and for the first time we stopped second guessing the decision.

Cronin Family, Virginia

Our schedules change constantly and we were used to managing the nanny as much as the children. That stopped after this placement. She operates independently and anticipates what we need before we say it.

Executive Family, DC

Pink Nannies matched our family with our beloved nanny, who is about to celebrate her third anniversary with us. We couldn’t be more grateful to them for making the perfect match! Our nanny is the kindest, most reliable, most competent person we could have ever dreamed of. Thank you Pink Nannies!

Private Family, Ohio

I was tasked with finding a nanny for a HP household with very specific needs. Pink Nannies understood our tone and expectations immediately and sent only polished, intuitive candidates. The match was thoughtful and exact. The placement brought much needed harmony to the home.

Lauren, Family Assistant, DMV

Our previous searches always felt like interviews. This felt like a recommendation from someone who knew our family well. Months later, the placement still feels steady, and that has changed our daily life more than we expected.

The Carter Family, Miami

We didn’t realize how much mental energy we were spending managing childcare until we didn’t have to anymore. Pink Nannies introduced someone who handled the day calmly and competently, and our home felt lighter almost overnight.

Private Family, Bay Area

We’ve hired before and it always felt like we were managing the person instead of being supported by them. Pink Nannies was completely different. They actually understood what we needed and sent someone who just got it. It made everything easier.

Family Office, Miami

We were stretched thin and honestly not showing up as the kind of parents we wanted to be. Pink Nannies changed that. They sent us someone who stepped in, took real ownership, and made our home feel steady again. I wish we had done it months earlier.

Greenberg Family, Washington DC

I didn’t expect to feel this much relief. It wasn’t just having help, it was finally feeling like someone understood how our home actually runs.

The Myers Family, DC

As two working parents with full schedules, we needed guidance we could rely on. Pink Nannies was discreet, clear, and steady throughout the process, and it felt more like a partnership than a transaction.

The Steele Family, Ohio

We were looking for something more intentional than a typical placement service. Pink Nannies approached the search thoughtfully and tailored it around our family, not a checklist. The process felt personal from the first conversation through the hire.

Private Equity Family, DC

We had a long list of must-haves, but Pink Nannies dug deeper—into values, parenting style, even our communication patterns. That’s why our nanny feels like she’s been with us forever.

Sarah, mom in Washington, D.C.

As a family assistant, I was responsible for finding the right nanny for a high-profile household with very specific expectations. Pink Nannies understood the tone of the home immediately. The team was organized, responsive, and incredibly perceptive. The candidates they presented were polished, thoughtful, and genuinely aligned with the household. The placement brought calm back to the day.

Lauren, Family Assistant in New York

With a demanding schedule and three young children, I needed someone who could anticipate, move quickly, and integrate naturally into our home. Pink Nannies approached the search with real professionalism. Our family assistant is sharp, proactive, and absolutely essential to how our household runs.

Daniel, CEO and father of three in DC

From the first call, Pink Nannies listened carefully and asked thoughtful questions about how our family actually lives. They introduced us to someone who fits us beautifully. We did not just find childcare. We found peace of mind.

Amanda, mom of two in Boston

Our household moves quickly. I have a demanding role and my husband travels constantly. Pink Nannies took the time to understand how our home operates and introduced us to a professional who brings steadiness to the entire day.

Priya, mom of three in Los Angeles

After working with two other agencies, we were honestly discouraged. Pink Nannies restored our confidence. Our nanny is kind, proactive, and deeply in tune with our children. The difference in our home has been remarkable.

Justin, dad of twins in New York

Our family is not easy to match. Blended household, complicated schedules, very high expectations. Pink Nannies handled the process with honesty and clarity. The candidates they presented were genuinely aligned with our home. We hired within three weeks.

Rachel, mom of five in Ohio

Your questions, answered.

What is the importance of their role?

A Household Manager does far more than keep things tidy. This role creates operational structure inside your home. When your life includes leadership, travel, and complex logistics, you don't need assistance. You need ownership.

What is this list of responsibilities?

Common responsibilities include calendar management, vendor oversight, travel planning, school coordination, household systems, event preparation, and staff oversight. A strong Household Manager or Family Assistant preserves your energy, protects your children's environment, and reduces daily decision fatigue.

What are expectations from the candidates?

Professionals expect competitive salaried compensation, paid time off, healthcare support, and professional benefits aligned with role scope.

What is the difference between a Household Manager and a Family Assistant?

A Household Manager oversees vendors, staff, and household systems. A Family Assistant blends childcare support with structured home management tasks.

What responsibilities does a Household Manager handle?

Common responsibilities include calendar management, vendor oversight, travel planning, school coordination, household systems, event preparation, and staff oversight.

Do you assist with payroll and legal compliance?

Yes. We guide families on legal household employment and connect you with trusted payroll partners.

What is the impact of their role?

A Household Manager or Family Assistant anticipates needs, stabilizes operations, and protects your time. We study how your home actually operates so we can place a professional aligned with your standards, communication style, and pace. For parents, this role restores time for what matters most.

What is the standard placement fee?

A $500 launch fee initiates the search. A one-time placement fee of 25 to 30 percent of the candidate's gross annual compensation applies upon successful placement.

Can a nanny also work as a Family Assistant?

Yes. Many families successfully hire hybrid Nanny-Family Assistant roles when responsibilities are clearly defined and compensation reflects the expanded scope.

How long does a Household Manager search take?

Most searches take four to six weeks depending on scope and market conditions.

What does a Household Manager cost?

A $500 launch fee initiates the search. A one-time placement fee of 25 to 30 percent of the candidate's gross annual compensation applies upon successful placement. Professionals expect competitive salaried compensation, paid time off, healthcare support, and professional benefits aligned with role scope.

What if the placement is not the right fit?

We provide structured post-placement support to resolve challenges and protect long-term stability.